Some of the most common problems faced by couples in a committed relationship include the loss of passion or sexual attraction, growing resentment or contempt, poor communication and lack of mutual understanding, or simply lack of romance or boredom. Frequently, these issues have identifiable causes and can therefore be resolved, so that a fulfilling intimate relationship can be restored.
Resolving Relationship Conflict with Hypnosis
Very often during a relationship conflict, both parties literally regress back to an emotional state indicative of a younger part of themselves. If we discover that our clients are regressing back to a similar experience, it indicates that the childhood conflict was never resolved, or the child’s emotional needs were never addressed.
During that younger time, we made conclusions and decisions that have remained stored in our subconscious mind, just like the memory chips of our computers. An example may be for the woman, “I am unlovable. It’s my fault that daddy left.” And the behavior pattern that developed from this self-belief may be, “I am responsible to keep everyone safe. I have to know where everyone is at all times.” This subconscious programming pops up whenever a situation occurs that is similar enough to the original traumatic experience. This can even lead to a codependent relationship.
The good news is that we can use the emotional reaction of either partner to do an internal search and discover why this couple seems to replay these scenes over and over in their marriage. And why couples often go from therapist to therapist searching for answers but nothing seems to permanently change the relationship or the intense reactions.
“Todd truly saved my life. I was going though a terrible break up and could not seem to get out of my own way. I had tried medication and therapy and nothing was working so I decided to try something different. The change in my life and way of thinking over the course of 8 sessions was indescribable. I not only was able to work again and get out of bed but now can handle and look at all my relationships differently. Todd gave me the tools to move forward with my life and be happy again.” – Loni Paige
The major false belief that traditional relationship therapists have perpetuated is that consciously understanding the problem will change it. If that were true, then most people who consciously understand that they should lose weight would be successful. Conscious awareness alone seldom changes the subconscious mind.
Many of our clients have realized that the first step to achieving healthier relationships with others is to develop a healthy relationship with themselves:
“I have to say after trying Todd Goodwin’s hypnosis my life went from relationships lasting 2-4 months and having friends in my life who i should have never called friends to being married and just welcoming my 2 week baby boy into the world. Huge difference from meeting the same kind of people not just in romantic relationships but friendships as well to meeting the kind of individuals I wanted in my life including my wonderful husband who appreciates all that I am. Hypnosis has helped me forget about my bad pattern and appreciate myself so others do as well. Definitely worth going to.” – Monica Diaz
Read what another client, Jessica Carter, had to say about her experience:
“I highly recommend The Miami Hypnosis Center!! I was struggling many years in a relationship where I knew the right path was opposite of what I was doing. I was holding on for our child and hopes that it would be everything I wanted it to be one day. I really needed someone to help me wake up and realize that my subconsciousness was driving my life and until I could get that in check I would never be happy and confident in any decisions I was making. A friend referred me to Todd and having no clue about hypnosis, I was skeptical. However, from the start, Todd made me feel very comfortable and had a very calm yet confident sense about him. He was very easy to talk with and made situations relatable. I completed 6 sessions and I am so much happier in my life in all aspects. I have a better relationship with my ex, my family and am a better mother. It was completely worth the money and I will definitely go back for other areas that I can continue to improve on.”
Read more comments from past clients who used hypnosis to improve relationships in their life.
*Comments made by former clients are true and factual. Goodwin Hypnosis, its officers, and personnel, do not imply or claim that these comments represent typical results. Results vary depending on age, gender, lifestyle, motivation, and individual commitment to achieve a desired result. Each comment, and/or review, is the opinion of one person at a specific time and should only be considered in that context.